Why it’s important to show him how you masturbate

Until a few years back I classed masturbation as self-love. My “me time,” was reserved for lazy Sunday mornings when my other half was out kicking a ball around a muddy pitch. I enjoyed stretching out in bed, touching my pussy, and gently rubbing my clit. Sometimes I’d grope in the bedside drawer for my vibrator and press it between my thighs, rolling onto my front to intensify the pulsing pleasure. Solo fun usually ended in a noisy orgasm, and I loved to bask in the post-cum glow.

Then, one Sunday morning, my partner’s game was cut short and he arrived home unexpectedly. I didn’t hear him enter the room and only realized he was standing at the foot of the bed when I’d finished fingering myself and pounding my sex toy like my life depended on it.

My face reddened, but he didn’t miss a beat, stripping off and climbing into bed next to me. I reached out an arm idly and my hand brushed against his cock, stiff as a board. We kissed, and we fucked harder and better than we’d done in a long time.

Turns out he was mega turned on by seeing me so turned on. Forget self-love, if watching me get it on had this effect on him it would be show and tell from here on in. I know that for some, masturbation is a personal and private act, so the idea of flicking your bean while your partner looks on might not rock your boat. I…